Happy New Year!!!
Last night I didn’t go for any countdown party but I went to dine with a group of my friends at their apartment. We had a potluck dinner for the party. While I had made my “oriental chicken salad” for them, as it is a simple and nice salad due to I still need to work on the last day of 2007.
As usual, we had great food and great wine, and great champagne during the countdown. And I had learned something in this dinner, which I would like to share at here: “選你所愛的，愛你所選的；完美的不一定要擁有，（不完整）缺陷也許是一種美”which means, “Choose what ever you like, Love what ever you had chose; Some how, you no need to own the Perfect, try to look at the beauty of the Incomplete!”
Proud to be who you’re!
The statement above really can apply on many aspects of our life.
We live as who we are and why we should care about what others think on us! Just be yourself and you will be happier. It’s true, we had chosen the lifestyle for ourselves, and why don’t we live proudly with our lifestyle? Be yourself and you no need to please everyone. The truth is you can’t please everyone at the same time.
While in relationship, it can be mention as this “Sometimes the apple looks great on the outside but it may have worms inside that you may not know.”
Loyalty is important in relationship, although he may not perfect to you.
Perfect lover is only our dream, because I believe that everyone is incomplete or not 100% perfect. As the shoes that you wearing now is fine, why you need to try a new shoes which look greater? It maybe not suits you. So please loyal to your lover and share your incomplete love with him. Let your dream lover inside your imagination. Be realistic and practical in your relationship. Try to accept the others’ disadvantage; I think you may live happier.
2008, a new year, a new begging ..... a New Me !!!!
Happy 2008!!!
