Maybe that’s L.O.V.E.

Today is 28 December 2007, 3 days before 2008.
I heard these words form a friend from mine: “有時候，不是對方不在乎你，而是你把對方看得太重.” It means, “sometimes, isn’t he didn’t care about you, but the truth is you’re care about him too much.”
Yeah, I really agreed with this statement, because the other party will never know how much you care about him. Or does this mean you love him more than he does? Can we scale the love? Or is there a unit for us to measure the relationship?
For me, the more you care about or love that person, the more you will be hurt! Because what you had contributed sometimes you’ll just get nothing back. Maybe that’s call LOVE?
Some people said, “we couldn’t be too calculative in relationship, so we must learn to let go!” “Let go?” or shall we “Let Him GO?”
My friend always told me that we need to be moderate in relationship, but in fact, how many of us can do so? Is really hard to do so, trust me! Haha! Because if you don’t care about that person means you do not love him…. any more!
If you love a person will you always think about him? Thinking about what’s he is doing now or when he didn’t return your call and you will start to worry about him? If you love a person, you would not mind doing nothing and forget yourself just to be with him. Don’t you agree with me? You will not regret what you had done for him. At least, I didn’t regret and I get nothing now.
So, I told myself "别怪他不在乎你，只是你把他看得太重！" (Don't blame him that he doesn't care about you, just that he is too important for yourself!".